Hello! I am Ashleigh
A Navy Wife
25 years old
&a Fitness Coach
Message me if you want to talk the milso life, life as a mom, fitness or anything really!
I met my husband when we were 8 years old in elementary school. We dated much of middle & high school. Got engaged at 18/19 years old, and married at 21 years old. We then found out I was pregnant at 24, which is also when he committed to the US Navy. Now we are 25 and we have a beautiful baby boy ☺️
I am also on a journey to live a healthier lifestyle. I am an ex-competitive runner & new beach body coach. I am looking for people who are wanting to join in and make a change in their life, even if they don't want to do a beach body challenge.
Bubble beard 💙
Lol… I went to the doctor today. I’ve missed my last 2 cycles (yes! 2!), I knew there was about a 0.001% chance that i’d be pregnant, but I took the blood test to be 100% sure and it came back negative. What does my doctor say? She said I need to relax. Lol! That I am literally so stressed out, that I’m all out of whack. Well… I’ve been adjusting to military life, my husband has been gone for 6 months, I work full-time, raise our 9 month old son & get bailed on or ignored by most of my friends. At this point my closest adult contact is my sister and mom (&thank god for them). But at this point, I’ve felt so stressed out for so long, that I don’t really know how to lessen that tension…
Guess I’ll need to think of something.
My baby just fell asleep, and I’m sure my husband is on his way too (he called to say goodnight & we just got off the phone). Today I had a bit of an inner-turmoil type meltdown. I’m not satisfied with the ‘career-path’ and I say career lightly. I hate my job.
As you may know we found out that W’s PCS is in Coronado, CA! We are so excited to finally know where our lives will be these next few years. We were also a bit nervous about how expensive Coronado/San Diego is… That being said. I have to get a job. Which is no problem for me because I like having a job. Downside… I HATE what I’m doing, but I have 5 years of experience doing it… It is where I have the potential to make the most money right now… And THAT is depressing.
So I’ve stumbled upon an interesting dilemma… Go to Coronado, and be (for all intents and purposes) house poor… Or stay separated 😞 and enroll in college to so what I REALLY want to do. It would be so easy to choose either one if I didn’t have a son… But I do, and he is the best thing I could have ever dreamed of. This will probably be the hardest decision we have ever had to make in our marriage thus far… But I think that if all went well… It would put us in such a great place as a family. I just don’t know if I’m okay with it. I want a career I actually love or like at the very least… But I also want to be with my husband SO FLIPPING BAD. I obviously have a lot to think about. I just wanted to get it out there. No matter what, we will get through this.
Da Vinci said it best…
One of my favorite quotes. My husband could potentially be leaving on his first deployment sooner than expected. We are a ‘roll with the punches’ kind of couple. We are a team. Even if we don’t know what’s coming, when it will come or even how it will come about… It will come when it comes, and we will meet it when it does… Together ❤️⚓️
It’s been a while, but I’ve been busy. Went on a family vacation to Shasta Lake last week and had an awesome time! My sister and I hit up Crater Lake National Park on out way home and it was just a really amazing vacation. I got to hang out with my little man all week, go boating, hang out by the pool and just hang with family & friends. 😎☀️🚤